I feel that my disabled daughter is ugly. Help this mother please?

Wooow this has got to be a joke, I wonder if it were the other way around would you want your daughter to leave you. An accident is an accident, no one knows when it's going to happen, so how can you hate her for something thats not her fault...or is it the fact that your marriage is over and you need someone to blame it on...your certainly right, you need major help